Tag Archive: gay


    I’ve been a member of planetromeo.com / gayromeo.com for about 8 years now and they are my preferred gay community site. Unlike other sites like gaydar.com, they are not solely focused on making money using a traditional sex sells approach. On Gayromeo, the community aspect is important, too!

    Every year on easter, they have a easter egg hunt. Spread totally randomly across their site, any easter egg you find will give you some kind of benefit. And every year, I spend at least 2h of my life hunting them all down!

    I thought this year I could give other people like me a helping hand by listing them all below:

    1. Yellow U egg: Settings – user interface
    2. Yellow U egg: Top users with footprints – Really Sweet
    3. Pink S egg: Webcam escorts worldwide; at the bottom of the page
    4. Brown P egg: Main pic who you have wished happy easter
    5. Pink P egg: Manage your photos – create new folder
    6. Pink P egg: Show all benefits – download porn movies
    7. Blue C egg: Planetromeo foundation main page

    I posted this really funny video on my facebook and some of my friends strangely enough didn’t get that this was satire. Isn’t it actually obvious?

    Here’s an ad Pepsi is currently airing in the UK. Apparently it is already creating quite a stir in the bigoted US.

    Love of Siam film poster

    I just finished watching the Thai film Love of Siam. I know what you think, judging from the movie poster to the left I thought it was a teeny drama / corny teeny straight-guy-turns-gay love story as well. But as it turns out, that’s not at all the case. Well ok, there is a tinsy little bit of that in there but generally speaking it turned out to be a very long (about 150 min) and good film about relationships and love. Not just the corny type of love that you see in every soap, but all kinds. All actions in the film that drive the development of the storyline are a consequence of love.

    The main character in the film is Mew, a lonely teenager who was raised by his grandmother. He has been living alone since her death several years ago. Along comes Tong, once Mew’s best friend and neighbour. His family is slowly disintegrating as a consequence of his sister’s disappearance (presumably death, but we never find out). Tong’s mother is desperately trying to hold the family together while his father drowns his sorrow in alcohol.

    While the story centers around the gay (but non-sexual) relationship between Mew and Tong, it’s by far not the main focus of the film. The fillm just happens to have a gay element in it. It goes incredibly deep into all sorts of relationships: mother-father, friend-friend, would-be-lover and friend, mother-son, father-son, etc. and portrays them from many different angles.

    What really surprised me was the the ending. After being indoctrinated for years by Hollywood films and the specific way they are filmed and stories are written, I would have expected something completely different. Another bonus point for this very beautiful film :)

    VERDICT: World cinema, gay films OR dramas – if you are a fan of any of these then watch Love of Siam

    Here’s a nice ad I found on YouTube about about gay marriage:

    According to an article in today’s China Daily, Shanghai has a new gay bar called Club LC, with LC standing for “Live Cool”. While it remains to be seen if this club survives the next few months, I’m always glad to hear positive news of development for the LGBT community in China. I just wished, cities other than Beijing or Shanghai would develop a small scene, too.

    Whether you are travelling to China or just looking for some gay and LGBT venues there, here are two links for you with some addresses in Shanghai and Beijing.

    In most western countries gay pride parades more and more just turn into one big party. Most gay people in western countries take them for granted, which isn’t bad per se and shows the level of legal development and social acceptance in their countries, but one consequence of it is that we start forgetting what pride parades are truly about.

    This is not just about Latvia. Latvia stands for numerous countries – some of them highly developed – where prides are at its infancy, where the LGBT community has to cope with major struggles on a day-to-day basis. This is not just about some people who don’t accept this kind of lifestyle shouting hate slurs, it’s about the many people physically attacking you outright for who you are.

    UPDATE: I just read about the happenings at Moscow Pride and just reading about it makes me feel incredibly sad.

    A few days ago on the International Day Against Homophobia (short: IDAHO) the International Lesbian and Gay Association (short: ILGA) published a report about the worldwide status of gay rights – or non-rights.

    I realise that things have improved a lot compared to 20 years ago (or even 5 years ago), but looking at the bigger picture the outlook is still bleak: in 86 countries, being gay is still penalised. In 7 of these countries the mere fact of being can lead to execution

    LGBT right around the world